helo

Helo,Everybody!!!!Sry for not updating my blogs for sumtime due to wrk n personal commitments.I wonder do i still got supporters out there...how u ppls spend yr x'mas n plan how to spend NY countdwn???this year is special for me becos i got sum1 special to spend with..haha.

Hope u ppls had spent it with sum1 special too..Btw,2010 is cuming!!!Had u PLAN wat is yr 2010 resolutions????Beta make it fast...Rember to plan it simple n achievable if not how to achive yr goal for 2010.


MERRY X"MAS N A HAPPY NEW YEAR>>>PEACE!!!!!!!!!

Touching story to so SHARE!!!!!

男孩和女孩从小就认识，男孩经常约女孩一起去村外的池塘边捉小虾，每次男孩总是满载而归，女孩却是两手空空，女孩总是失落的含着眼泪，独自一个人回到家，然后闷闷不乐。晚饭前，男孩敲响女孩家的门，女孩一见是男孩，扭头就走，男孩追上前，对女孩说：“对不起，我把你的虾都捉走了，给，我把它们养在小鱼缸里，送给你。”女孩眉头一放，慧心的笑了，就这样反复着他们纯纯的童年，转眼，他们各自成长着。——纯纯的“对不起” 。

男孩总是喜欢戏弄女孩，经常会把女孩逗到哭，然后又去哄女孩到她笑为止，直到长大后，也是如此。 男孩经常偷偷的把女孩的自行车轮胎的气放到没有，然后躲在远处，看女孩着急的走投无路，等着女孩拨通他的手机，然后破口大骂他的小贼行为。可男孩，依旧那么喜欢这样的女孩。他窃窃的从远处走来，灰溜溜的为女孩推着那辆没了气的自行车，任由女孩在一旁发牢骚，男孩却暗自窃喜，然后委屈的对女孩说：“对不起，我知道错了。”随即，女孩便会柔弱下来，告诉男孩下次不允许那样，男孩点头，于是，那时的他们每天都充满着笑容。—— “对不起”的快乐 。

大学毕业后，男孩和女孩各自有了工作，男孩的工作总是很忙，有时一个月都休息不到一次，而女孩总是抱怨男孩冷落了她，终于，他们有了第一次的吵架。女孩委屈的哭起来，可男孩却很理直气壮的告诉女孩：“这是为了我的工作。”这场冷战持续了很久。终于，女孩还是忍不住，主动和男孩和好了。后来很多次男孩和女孩都因为这样的小事而吵得不可开交，可每次，都是女孩先妥协。

那年，女孩生日，男孩答应女孩要给他过一个浪漫的生日，女孩欣喜不已，她在家精心打扮，等着男孩回来陪她渡过这个美妙的生日，这一等就是凌晨，女孩在睡梦中醒来，脸上挂着泪痕，男孩见到女孩，心疼的为女孩擦去脸庞的泪痕：“对不起，嫁给我好吗？”于是男孩拿出一枚戒指。—— “对不起”也是一种承诺。

婚后，男孩的事业大有成就，经常有许多应酬，而女孩已经成为一个专职太太了，每天在家为男孩准备热菜热饭，把家里收拾的干干净净，她经常会去菜场买回一些小河虾放在鱼缸里养着，男孩总问他为什么，女孩却总是慧心的一笑。 慢慢的，男孩每次回家，身上总是充满了不同的香水味道，而每次没等女孩问，男孩总是忙着解释说应酬太多。女孩黯然，那时起，女孩不太爱说话了，也不像以前那么开朗了，她总是喜欢成天的呆在家里，抱着枕头看韩剧，然后随着剧情哭泣，夜深时，就会疯狂的大哭。

以后的日子里，男孩回来时，身上的香水味只有一种味道了，女孩从来不问，可是男孩依旧说：“对不起，今天又去应酬了。”—— “对不起”，谎言的开始。

渐渐的，男孩开始不回家，或总是在外出差，男孩的事业越来越好，身边都是奉承的人，他每天都在别人的恭维下自豪的笑着，而女孩，几乎不出门了，她总会去超市买上很多方便面，和一些必要的日用品，然后把自己关在家里，这一呆就是很久。从前，女孩会经常和男孩一起聊聊天，而现在，她孤身一人，身边没有一个可以说话的人，每次打电话问男孩什么时候回家，男孩总是仓促的回答到：“对不起，我太忙了。”女孩，失落的扣上电话，那以后她再也没有问男孩什么时候会回家。—— “对不起”，只是个敷衍的方式。

女孩学着电视上的样子，开始打扮自己，她觉得男孩不回家，也许是看腻了她，她决定不再颓废，自己的幸福应该靠自己争取，而不是无谓的后退。 那天，女孩心血来潮，按照地址去了男孩工作的地方，那是女孩第一次去，也是唯一的一次。女孩涩涩的按下电梯，来到这个男孩经常说忙的地方，她细细的观察这个公司的每个角落，这里的一切，她都觉得很好看。终于，绕过长长的办公走廊，她来到男孩的办公室，轻轻的推开门……女孩愣住了，眼前看到的不是自己的丈夫，也不是那个经常弄坏她自行车的那个贼小子，更不是那个把虾放在小鱼缸里的男孩，而是一个正在和别的女人做爱的男人。

那个女人坐在桌子上，******的发出微弱的呻吟声，那个男人，仿佛山林里饿极了的野兽…… 许久，男孩才发现了女孩，男孩惊慌失措，忙把衣裤捡起来穿好。可女孩，转身离开了。男孩飞奔出去，追着女孩，那晚，大雨袭击了整个城市。女孩不顾男孩的叫喊，径直往前跑，往回家的方向跑，男孩在女孩后面大喊：“对不起，我还是爱你的，对不起，我真的只爱你。”可女孩，始终没有听见。—— 这样的“对不起”太伤人。

男孩一直都没有找到女孩，女孩失踪很久了。男孩的世界已经一片黑暗，无心工作，无心花天酒地，他想不到女孩可以去哪里，因为女孩没有朋友，她唯一的朋友就是男孩，男孩终日守着电话机，手机24小时不关机，怕错过了女孩的电话。这一等就是半年多。 快递为男孩送来一个盒子。

男孩打开一看，里面是许多河虾的标本，有的在树叶边休息，有的在水草里躲着，各式各样的河虾标本，旁边放着一封信。 “ 我始终没有勇气再见到你，可能是我太懦弱，也或许是我根本不想见到你，我想这些『警告：注意文明用语！』应该过的没什么两样吧，我很好，我学会了离开你怎么让自己存活，我懂得了怎样赚钱养活自己，而不用每天等着你回家，为你烧一桌热腾腾的饭菜，直到凉了也不见你的人，我的手机已经不用了，因为我已经不会再为你24小时的不关机，让自己饱受辐射的折磨。

我懂得怎样去爱惜自己，珍惜自己的本来应该美好的生活。我想，我是可以忘记怎么去爱你的，因为你把我的爱弄得遍地麟伤。 离婚协议书，就压在鱼缸的底下，你签完字，按照地址给我寄过来就行了。对不起，我想我是真的累了。”

男孩按照地址找去，他满心希望能够见到女孩，然后让女孩原谅，并且告诉女孩自己不能没有她，可是打开门的却是女孩的父亲，而女孩就站在她父亲的身后——是女孩的遗像。 女孩的父亲告诉男孩，女孩在写完这封信后，跳楼自杀了，血肉一片模糊。—— 原来“对不起”也可以是种结束。

那一年，男孩疯了。每个人在自己的生命里头，一定会遇到一个自己真正该珍惜的人。请你好好的珍惜那一个人，不是每一句的对不起，都可以换来每一句的没关系……千万不要辜负了自己心爱的人，那对谁，都不好……不要随意地说出对不起...... 看了有什麽感觸嗎?心疼?傷心? 你現在體會到什麽是愛....


So beta dun let yr loved one being hurt by yr actions...

Things to share

緣份 是一種很炫的東西~~ 它通常是在不知不覺中出現。當它存在之時，你可能不會珍惜；期待它到來時，它卻一直都不出現 。所以，從此刻開始，大家要懂得珍惜它，珍惜生活在你 周圍的所有人，無論是朋友、愛人、甚至於家人.......

Ｃ~Ｈ~Ｅ~Ｒ~Ｉ~Ｓ~Ｈ 在你一生當中，能交到多少個知心朋友 ?? 雖然你們實際上才認識不久，不過感覺上卻像好久好久 。你有這種朋友嗎??? 就是你們很談得來，什麼都分享，什麼都聊，一輩子也 不厭倦的那種。如果你有這種朋友，趕快對他說:這一生中最知心的朋 友就是你，絕對錯不了!!~而且永遠也不會改變 !~

ＩＮＴＩＭＡＴＥ　ＦＲＩＥＮＤＳ~~~ 我們 有緣 而相識 我們 有緣 而相聚 我們 有緣 而交換心靈 我們應該彼此 珍惜 相處的每一刻 更應該 珍惜 你現在所擁有的一切 此生才不會悔憾

ＬＯＶＥ??!! 是愛??是喜歡??還是只是欣賞?? 愛是百分之百 ，你無時無刻都在想、思念著他。喜歡有百分之八十，你 常常 都會想到他、思念他。而欣賞只剩百分之六十,你只有偶爾 會想到、和思念著他。欣賞會讓人積極，喜歡會讓人開心，但愛卻會讓人傷心。當你欣賞一個人 ，你不見得 會喜歡他，也不見得會愛上他。當你喜歡的一個人，有可能你只是欣賞他，但你也有可能會愛上他。當你愛一個人時，你一定是 基於欣賞，慢慢變成喜歡，然後最後成了愛。當你和他搭訕時，剛開始那只是出於“欣賞”。當他們交往一段時間後，可能會變成“喜歡”，但也可 能永遠只能停留在“欣賞”，至於“愛”，很難說，說不定你一輩子都找不到。

ＬＩＫＥ~~~~ 有人問：你為什麼喜歡一個人？我只能夠說出為什麼不喜歡一個人，卻說不出為什麼喜歡一個人。喜歡一個人，是一種感覺。不喜歡一個 人，卻是事實。事實容易解釋，感覺卻難以言喻。愛情是忽然有一個人，我們覺得一見如故，我們的內分泌忽然起了翻天覆地的變化，很很想靠近她，想擁抱她。以後，無論快樂或哀愁，我們也想不起當初為什麼愛她 。 因只有當我們不愛一個人時，才會找出不愛她的原因。

ＡＤＭＩＲＥ？!？ 每個人都有屬於自己的一個故事。 在這故事理，你應該努力地演好自己的角色。如果劇本是自己寫的，我相信，這個世界裡再不會有悲 劇出現。 只可惜， 編劇一定是兩個人。只要其中一方有了變話，這齣戲任你再怎 麼努力去演，到了最後只會成為悲劇。 一生當中，會有很多跟你合演的人， 但最終，只有一個可以幫你完成這齣劇 =)

ＦＲＩＥＮＤＳＨＩＰ=) 珍惜現在所擁有的，總比到時候完全失去了再也沒得的 好吧^_^ 《快~~~不要再猶豫了, 讓他知道他在你心中是多麼的重要。如果遲了，妳只能懷念曾經共有的時光。我們都還年輕，要網住所有美好的記憶，讓年輕不留白》

Touching story

A story that i had read it..It's a sad love story...I think is gd to share with my frends...Please read it.Sry for the long story,pls take yr time to read it.

年輕人喜歡上了在便利商店 打工的女孩, 他每天都會到女孩工作的店裡面買一包香菸,漸漸的兩人開始互相熟悉. 當女孩工作感到無聊乏味的時候,或者是心情不好的時候, 年輕人就會出現, 他會陪女孩說說話, 或是逗女孩開心. 女孩也知道年輕人似乎喜歡上自己了,可是自己已經有很要好的男友.

面對年輕人如此的關懷,自己也不知道如何婉拒他. 有一天商店外頭運來一台娃娃機,女孩很喜歡裡面的娃娃. 年輕人知道以後,就去夾了一隻娃娃送給女孩, 當天他終於對她表白,希望女孩能接受他, 不知如何是好的女孩,只能殘忍的告訴年輕人,她和他是不可能的. 因為她已經有深愛的男友了, 年輕人聽了之後默然的點點頭, 只是自己對女孩的喜歡已經超出自己所預期的, 他不死心的問女孩,自己真的沒有機會了嗎?

善良的女孩不忍心看到原本開朗風趣的年輕人變得如此消沉寡歡, 於是她手指著娃娃機裡面的絨毛娃娃說, 除非你夾滿100個娃娃,而且一天只能夾一個. 原來女孩希望用時間來沖淡年輕人對自己的感情, 她心想,一天夾1個娃娃,最快也要三個多月之後才有100個, 而且年輕人應該不會真的有耐心夾滿100個娃娃吧!

這三個月的時間,她會盡量與男孩保持距離, 她決心讓兩人恢復到店員和顧客的關係. 年輕人還是每天到商店來,可是女孩開始變得冷淡. 他總是試著聊一些女孩有興趣的話題,不過女孩依然愛理不理. 因為她知道唯有這樣做,才不會讓年輕人越陷越深.

年輕人或許是感覺到女孩的用意, 於是他每天夾娃娃, 有時運氣好夾一兩次就中了, 有時運氣差,零用錢花光了也夾不到,只好跟朋友借錢繼續夾,一直到夾 中為止. 無論花多少錢花多少時間,他每天一定會夾一個娃娃. 只是他無法與女孩分享夾到娃娃的喜悅, 因為他知道女孩有意要避開他, 為了怕引響到女孩的情緒.

他只能在櫥窗外頭微笑的對女孩點點頭. 好幾次,看到年輕人因為夾到娃娃興高采烈的樣子, 女孩都想要衝出去對他說, 我是騙你的,你不要再夾了,就算你真的夾到100個娃娃,我跟你也是不可能的!

但是一想到年輕人希望破滅的樣子,女孩就於心不忍, 她只能不斷猶豫. 就這樣1天,2天,3天..,年輕人的娃娃數量不斷的累積, 而女孩刻意與年輕人保持距離的結果,則是讓自己在工作的時後更顯孤 單.

不知道是哪一天,女孩子因為在外地工作的男友無法回來陪她過18歲的生日, 與男友吵了一架, 而那天年輕人仍一如往常的來到便利商店, 不同的是那天年輕人竟走進了店裡, 他對女孩說, 可不可以破例讓他在今天夾兩個娃娃回去.

可是因為和男友吵架而心情不佳的女孩,很生氣的當場拒絕了他. 就這樣,年輕人走到娃娃機旁,默默的夾了一個娃娃回去, 在年輕人離開的時後,他對櫥窗裡的女孩看了一眼. 隔天以後,年輕人再也沒來夾娃娃了.

剛開始女孩雖然覺得奇怪,但是仍然慶幸自己終於放下了心中的大石頭. 可是漸漸的,她突然覺得不習慣, 因為那個每天都會為了她來夾娃娃的熟悉背影, 好像空氣一樣就消失不見了, 這時女孩才發現到, 原來她心中的失落感遠遠超過年輕人所帶給她的負擔. 只是一切都...

女孩開始想念以前年輕人來店裡陪她聊天的點點滴滴. 哪怕他只是站在櫥窗外頭沉默不語的夾娃娃, 似乎都會帶給她莫名的安全感. 所以女孩每天上班時,總是不斷的抬頭張望, 那個熟悉的身影來了嗎? 可惜的是,年輕人始終沒出現,只剩下那台沒人使用的娃娃機.

有一天,女孩下班後,在店門口遇到了以前常和年輕人一起來的朋友, 她焦急的問他年輕人的下落,可是年輕人的朋友則是一臉黯然, 他帶女孩來到年輕人的家, 當他開啟年輕人的房間的門時,映入女孩眼簾的是一群娃娃機裡面的絨毛娃娃, 以及躺在床上動也不動的年輕人. 原來年輕人的脊椎有病,必須要開刀才能保住生命, 可是開刀有一半的機率會失敗而導致全身癱瘓.

年輕人在開刀的前一天晚上,也就是女孩和男友大吵一架的那天, 希望女孩給他機會夾2個娃娃,因為他已經累積有98個了, 然而卻遭到女孩的回絕, 隔天之後年輕人手術不幸失敗變成植物人, 年輕人的母親拿了一封信給女孩,那是年輕人在手術之前寫好的:

其實我早就知道,就算夾到了100個娃娃, 妳也不可能會喜歡我, 我之所以這麼做並不是故意要造成妳的困擾, 而是希望在我有限的時間裡, 證明我曾經很用心的去愛一個人, 這樣就足夠了, 如果妳看到了這封信, 那表示我再也無法為你夾娃娃了, 對不起, 或許我的努力還不夠吧, 沒能夾到100個娃娃親手送給你..

女孩看著床邊的99個絨毛娃娃,那是99顆無法承受的真心, 眼眶裡的淚水早已決堤而出... 隔天女孩來到年輕人的家, 她將第100個絨毛娃娃放到年輕人的手中, 這時已經變成植物人的他, 眼睛流下了淚水....


My thoughts for the above mentioned story is to CHERISH everyone ard u..Be it frends,families or loved one...PLS DUN CRY OR BLAME YRSELF WHEN U LOST SUMONE THAT U DUN APPRECAITE THEIR LOVE N CARE or cherish.....

Improvements......

Helo..this is my 1st blog in the mth of november..Recently i watch ch u 10 pm HK drama,there is a part abt one of the lead actors neglect his gf's feelings n love n care..He always thought the things that he do,his gf will like n appreciate it.But in the end,he's wrong abt it.His gf dun like it but she just dun wan to make her bf sad abt the effort..she act happy abt the effort he do.

He should put himself in his gf shoes.And think all the things first before he execute it.becos once ur in a r/s or already started a family,u had to think of yr gf and family members feelings n thoughts.does they like it????

So aftr watching the drama,i talk to myself.This is a improvement for me to execute or react for my dear gf.In the future,wat the things that i will do.i will consider other ppls' ( family,loved one n frends) thoughts n feelings before i do.

LOve..

Helo,i just watched a video clip abt a father n his son..damn touching/nice/meaningful...it's a true story...no jokes,u ppls out ther that read my blogs..pls go to my facebk acc to c it...search for my user name koh tze yong andy if ur not in my netwrk.

Love make things wonder...do u agree??Aftr watching e video which i just mentioned..u will know why..For love,the father willingly to run/participate in a marathon or iron man contest despite his age n health condition..To me, i think that he wan to let his son feel that although he not in a gd health condition to do the contest.but he still do alot things through his father..Tat's y he willingly to join/ do the things that the son mentioned..The father completed the contest throughout with his son by his side...U know running alone is very tiring liao..summore he had to complete with his son,a difficult task...But he nvr gave out becos he wan to fuilfil his son's wish/request.

So for the power of LOVE,everyone out there will sacrifice their lifes or try their best to do the things for their loved ones (Friends n familys)..Agree???so ppls out there,do not take ppls for granted..look to the ppls ard u,appreciate wat they had done for u..Understand???Hug THEM or said a THANKS TO THEM...to let them know that u loved them..

Presents!?!?!??!?

Helo...today is my birthdae...i had received alot wishes from my frends,buddies n comrades everywhere...Thks alot..

The best present that i have this year as my birthdae present is sum1 that i like n loved...Yeah...i got sum1 that love/sayang/care for me whish is cheryl lim..I will love/sayang/care for her as wat she do to me..


Love You...Cheryl lim...Ur e best present that i have this year.n i hope it will be my best forever n ever present all my life.

With loves

Birthdae!!??!!

Helo,ppls out there...It's been sumtime that i wrote my blogs...My birthdae is cuming...haiz,abit sad abt the things that is happening ard in this world..So many misfortunate stuff happening like disasters..Just hope the world will be free of suffering for everyones.Agree??i will feel sad when i read news abt ppls lost their loved ones during those incidents...

My first birthdae wish is NO MORE suffering for everyone from disasters...EVERYONE is safe n SOund..

2nd wish is that i will be happy with sum1 that i love forever n ever..haha..paparazzi out there..Pls wait for further news...

3rd wish is that i k wish for wishes...haha...greedy,right??is common for everyones..cos i wan more so that i k do alot things for myself n everyone that i love n care...(loved ones n friends n world)

Happy

U know wat...I'm very happy at the moment, i hope this type of happy feelings k last forever n ever.cos i had sum1 special to love me...haha,hmm shld put it in anther way..i had found sum1 to love/care/share happy moments with liao...Hmm,maybe u will ask y only happy moments.wat abt sad moments..For me,i will be there for her when she having sad/bad moments.It's a guy duty to do that for e ger u loved as wat i think...

But i will not share my bad moments with her cos i dun wanna to c her sad becos of me..i wan her to happy at times/forever n ever..So ppls out there,pls treat the one that u loved with love n care....Make sure he/she k feel it...Michael jackson got a gd song that i think is gd for everyone to listen it again..."You are not alone"...So let yr loved ones know that they are not alone.Cos i believe no one will leave their loved ones alone,Agree??

Same as me...HAHA....BB,Ur not alone.U know wat i mean..Rember??I will always be there for U..YEs ,only U...

Peace in Earth

helo...this is the second day that i had heard from news that the number of casualties will increased due to the earthquake...I feel sad when i heard the news...i was hoping the casualties will be saved or the number remain as what it is now.Dun you feel sad when u heard that ppls get injured due to natural disaster..I do..haha,maybe i'm too emotional liaO...

jUST Hope that it will not be like the incident that affected us(the hai xiao ) that everyone will always rember..

Hope world peace n no more natural disaster is gng to happen again or in the future...

PEACE!!!!!!

Love

Whoa,just watch ch8 Heart of Greed...I was touched by the actor to his ex gf actions...For the power of love,he was seriously injured from a accident..He still wan to give a call to his ex gf to give her advices on sum stuff that he promised to help her...But he nvr expect tat is his last call to her,the most sad part is he k not give the sea shell tat she hoping to have n take care of her which is he hoping to do it n forgiveness from her...

the power of love really make a person to change for the better side..It's very gd for sum1 to fall in love becos he/she will do sumthing for the loved one..Agree??pls think for wat i had just write.Kit the answer in yr heart...

Always treat the one u loved gd n caring...Becos u nvr know when u lose her/him,wat impact u will have in yr life...

Love or being loved???

helo,sry for gng missing for sumtime...My computer was dwn for sumtime..Hmm,todae's topic is abt love or being loved...I had to ask this question to u ppls out there...Do u like to b love by sum1 or love sum 1 that u love...This situation very messy...

Love sum1 does not mean tat person will love u back...Being love by sum 1 does not mean u will love the person back...Agree??????

Being love by sum1 tat u loved also is gd...Becos the r/s will work out to b a gd r/s with a result that both of the couple wants..which is a happy n blissful marriage that will make everione envy..

my own philosophy

讲了又不听, 听了又不做, 做了又做错, 错了又不认, 认了又不爽, 到底是谁的错?

do u guys like this sentence??i create it myself...it will always appeal in my life...so i will always ppls' comments for self improvement to upgrade myself into a better person....hahaha..hope it will help u ppls also...

Touching!!?!?!?!?!

Helo..guys is quite sumtime that i had updated my blogs...Also dunno whether any1 still got read my blogs..haha,Just finish the 9pm show at ch8... I like the part that xiao bao kit saying abt her mother wish n concern before she left this world..

Hmm,dunno y i feel touched Abt the part..is it becos i'm becuming a man of more sentimental feelings or maybe i scared that i will end up like the mother...hmm,maybe becos too many ppls ard me tat i know (frends n relatives) had just passed away or left this world. I dun wish to left this world too soon becos i had alot things not settle yet..haha,if yes..maybe i will turn into the sky to look after the ppls that i know/cared/loved...

The ppls that i will do for are my frends (those who piss me off n always look dwn me n always make use of me r not my frends),family members n THE ONLY ONE...haha..this is just my own thinking..DUn wry,i will not do funny things...Before i end,today is a very special dae for u to take note...LOOK AT THE CALENDAR 090909,yes..special right...quick call yr loved one AND let her/him know that they r being loved/doted/cared by u if u had neglected them....UNDERSTAND!!!!!!!!!!

MJ concert!?!?!

Helo,todae was a day for me that i will not forget...it was a day tat TCS paid a tribute to MJ king of pop by showing his history concert...Although the concert was ages ago,but i still like it becos it had alot of gd songs throughout it...(ie U'r not alone,Heal the world,Beat it,smooth criminal n more) But the most impt thing tat make me like him so much is his moon walk dancing...I think that is no one will do it so well...


I'm sad that the entertainment world had lost a Great Entertainer...But i hope those ppls out there will remember The king OF pop MJ...

HAIZ.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!

Helo...todae is 160809,my cousin is getting married..I'm happy for him as he was quite single for sum time...haha,same like me.He marry a Vietnam girl which his father (my uncle) arranged...N u know wat is the best part...it came from my family,my mum asked me whether m i ok if she also arrange it for me....hahaha...

I will never agree to it becos i dun believe in money to exchange for happiness...Sry for being frank n straightforward if my words had offended anyone out there...i ALWAYS BELIEVE/KNOW TRUE HAPPINESS/Love does not need any money to exchange for it..The Only items required are

F - Faithful to the one ur in love with
A - USE Actions to let her/him know U cherish
T - BE Thoughful of the things that will happen ard him/her
E - Effiicient for her/him needs (Always be there when he/she need U during sad/happy times)


SO total up will be fate,HAHAHA..DO u agree???these words are my own thinking/mindset..SO i dunno whether do i had offend anyone out there???please dun get angry with me...Thks alot for reading my blogs......

AGREE?!?!??!?!?

Guy Facts---
When a guy calls you,he wants to be with you
When a guy is quiet,He's listening to you...
When a guy is not arguing,He realizes he's wrong
When a guy says, "I'm fine" after a fewminuteshe means it
When a guy stares at you,he wishes you would care about him andwonders if you do
When your laying your head on a guy'schest,he has the world
When a guy calls/texts/comments/messages you everyday,he is in love
When a (good) guy tells you he loves you,he means it
When a guy says he can't live without you,he's with you till your done
When a guy says, "I miss you,"he misses you more than you could have ever missed him or anything else

Girl Facts--

When a girl is mean to you after a break-up she wants you back but she is tooscared she'll get hurt and knowsyou're gone forever!
when you catch a girl glancing at you,she wants you to look back and smile
When a girl bumps into your arm,while walking with youshe wantsyou to hold her hand
When she wants a hug she will just stand there
When u break a girls heartshe still feels it whenyou run into each other 3 years later
When a girl is quiet,millions of things are running through hermind..
When a girl is not arguing,she is thinking deeply,,
When a girl looks at you with eyes full ofquestions,she is wondering how long you will bearoundWhen a girl answers, "I'm fine," after afew seconds,she is not fine at al
lWhen a girl stares at you,she is wondering why you are playing games
When a girl lays her head on your chest,she is wishing for you to be hers forever
When a girl says she can't livewithout you,she has made up her mind that you are her future
When a girl says, "I miss you,"no one in this world can miss you more than that


Pls leave yr comments on this topic

A real MAN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

1.) A REAL MAN respects his mother and places his family first.
2.) A REAL MAN RAISES HIS KIDS, not JUST out of pocket either.
3.) A REAL MAN supports his woman to develop herself.
4.) A REAL MAN doesn't worry about what others depict as a real man. Walk in his shoes first and then tell him what makes him A REAL MAN.
5.) A REAL MAN doesn't Break Promises
6.) A REAL MAN calls you beautiful, not hot, sexy, or fine as fuck.
7.) A REAL MAN CALLS YOU on a daily basis - NO MATTER HOW BUSY OR TIRED HE IS.
8.) A REAL MAN looks past what he's heard about you or what his friends think of you.
9.) A REAL MAN wants to spend as much time as he can with you & won't get sick of you.
10.) A REAL MAN comes over just to watch movies with you.
11.) A REAL MAN kisses you on the forehead just because.
12.) A REAL MAN doesn't tell you what he thinks you want to hear. He tells you what's real.
13.) A REAL MAN should be treated like one.
14.) A REAL MAN doesn't ask questions when you say you need something....him, sex, money, or a bed to sleep in.
15.) A REAL MAN lets others know How He Feels About you.
16.) A REAL MAN doesn't play games!!!!!!!!!!!
17.)­ A REAL MAN doesn't leave you to go and hang out with his friends if he hasn't seen you in a week and then call you at 4 in the morning because he needs some loving.
18.) A REAL MAN doesn't deny you.
19.) A REAL MAN doesn't just think about sex.
20.) A REAL MAN Doesn't Judge the book by the cover.
21.) A REAL MAN wouldn't use his friendship card to get what he wants.
22.) A REAL MAN knows the difference between a REAL WOMAN and a random girl.
23.) A REAL MAN won't degrade a woman with words nor will he ever put his hands on her in anger.
24.) A REAL MAN sends you flowers Just Because.??????

To gers out there...PLS READ IT

To every guy that was never too busy to drive across town to see her.
To every guy that gives her flowers and a card when she is sick or down.
To every guy who has given her flowers just because thats how he rolls.
To every guy that said he would die for her.
To every guy that really would.
To every guy that did what she wanted to do.
To every guy that cried in front of her.
To every guy that she cried in front of...
To every guy that holds hands with her.
To every guy that kisses her with meaning.
To every guy that hugs her when she's sad.
To every guy that hugs her for no reason at all.
To every guy who would give their jacket up for her.
To every guy that calls to make sure she got home safe.
To every guy that would sit and wait for her for hours just to see her for ten minutes.....
To every guy that would give his seat up...
To every guy that just wants to cuddle.
To every guy that reassured her that she was beautiful no matter what.
To every guy who told his secrets to her.
To every guy that tried to show how much he cared through every word and every breath.
To every guy that thought maybe this could be the one.
To every guy that believed in her dreams.
To every guy that would have done anything so she could achieve them.
To every guy that never laughed at her when she told him her dreams.
To every guy that walked her to her car and opened the door.
To every guy that gave his heart.
To every guy who prays that she is happy even if you are not with her.


SO DID ANY guy do this to u????

Helo....

Hello,Guys n Gers..Thks for supporting by reading my blogs.I dunno who are the ppls that got really read my blogs..IS it because you care for me or just want to know what the latest updates of my life???Currently,my life abit sucks cos right now i will get moody or angry easily..I dunno why...Maybe due to wrk???I also dunno.But i just hope that sumone out there will not get anry if i dun answer /talk to them in a nice tone...hope u ppls out will understand,pls dun get angry.K??????
Just Hope the all BAD/SHIT/SAD stuffs will go away soon....

WAT a month for me?!?!?!

WHoa.....this mth of JULY was a busy month for me...Cos I'm tired with work n training in camp..JUst hope that i k ahd sum leaves to relax away from wrk...train till sun burn...summore is burn at my face...haiz,how to go to my frend's wedding dinner this sunday...Btw,yeah,one of my frends is gng to get marry this sunday...It's a gd thing to share with u guys n gers out there...

If u had found sum1 That u loved n the person loved u,PLEASE CHERISH N LOVE her..Do not let your loved one slip away...Hmm,this is my own thinking/view...U know wat gers like most from a guys...A identity...ALthough they might said is ok as long as we are together...actually they are waiting for the guy to do sumthing they are waiting for...a proposal to her...YES....It can be a simple one but it must be sumthing that make her remember for life..So do u guys out there got any ideas???on wat to do...better act it fast,dun wait..

Peace?!?!?!?!

Hiaz...was abit angry when i read newspaper lately..Y so many things r happening!!!!!!Like H1N1 death toll is on the rise n Jakarta BOmbings!?!?Y this world k not have Peace at all times....Y must have ppls ard in this world are suffering..

I hate seeing ppls suffering...Dunno why??is it becos i have a kind heart or i'm too soft hearted???haha......Pls,i just hope that the H1N1 death toll will not increase n no more suicide bombings...I know it's difficult to hope for these two things will cum true...I just hope tat it will not happen.WORLD PEACE!!!!!!!!!

Learning

Hello,a interesting topic today that i wan to share with u ppls out there..This is one of the power pnts that i had came across during my short upgrading courses conducted by NIE...

We Learn

10% - of what we read
20% - of what we hear
30% - of what we see
50% - of what we both hear and see
70% - of what we discuss with others
80% - of what we experience personally
90% - of what we teach to sumone else


Do U agree???

Nice!?!?!!?!

I receive a very nice email from my frend abt kiss n hand gesture means..so i would like to post it here to share with u ppls out there..Pls read it,so tat u will know how is yr other 1 wan u to know on the actions..hehe

What a kiss means....actually read the whole thing cuz its nice

+Kiss on the stomach = Im ready
+Kiss on the Forehead ="i hope we're together forever"
+Kiss on the Ear = Your my everything
+Kiss on the Cheek = "We're friends"
+Kiss on the Hand = "I adore you"
+Kiss on the Neck = "we belong together"
+Kiss on the Shoulder = "I want you"
+Kiss on the Lips = I love you

"What the gesture means...
+Holding Hands = "we definitely love each other"
+Slap on the Butt = "That's mine"
+Holding on tight = "i don't want to let go"
+Looking into each other's Eyes = "i just plain love you"
+Playing with Hair = "Tell me you love me"
+Arms around the Waist = "I love you too much to let go"
+Laughing while Kissing = "I am completely comfortable with you"

--Advice--+ Dont ask for a kiss, take one.+If you were thinking about someone while reading this,you're definitely in Love.

Whoa

Whoa,i went swimming todae n went bugi aftr my swim.saw a interesting bk just now at kino kuniya.the title is named "the rules of LOVE"...It's a interesting bk.I flipped through the bk to read..It got interesting topics like "Be yrself,Let go the old R/S then u k start a new R/s"....Interesting????Right??Maybe u guys or gers k go n find it...

It might helps u to do better in yr R/s...hahaGd luck to u PPLS out there...

Health

I was a bit sad when i watched the ch8 drama (7PM).There is 1 scene in the show tat make me sad tat is in the show.One of the actress had died from cancer in it,although is not real.But u might wonder why i feel so sad??the reason is that i just received news that my aunt (mother side) had just passed away last wk due to cancer,which my mum had kept me in the dark.Haiz,this is the second time in these few mths that i was quite sad becos as my uncle (father side) had just passed away few mths ago.I know sooner or later for humans all nd to go through this stage...haiz..


Although LIFE is SHort,Pls enjoy It while U k.But REMBER HEALTH IS IMPT...DO not NEGLECT it especially this period of virus H1N1...Hope all my frends will stay clear n stay healthy ALWAYS............

A Week too Hard for ppls to take it...

Hiaz...It's quite hard for ppls to take it...Cos 1 of the legend had passed away...I remebr when i was small,i used to listen to his songs n always wan to learn his dancing...But too bad,i'm not talent to do it...haha...

But wat's e best thing that i like MJ,is his devotion to charity works.Although he's a spendthrift,he still donate his concert's earning to charities...this is the best thing that i respect him...Although,i dunno the charlie ANgel's actress well,but is consider sad for everyone who had watch the dramas...A tribute to the 2celebrities from holloywood.Rest In Peace.The ppls tat know u will remeber U ALWAYS...........

helo

Helo,Today is FATHERS' day....A tribute to all Fathers or fathers-to-be...HAPPY FATHERS' Day,although u might not b noble like mothers..But without u guys out there wrking,family without a man...doesit consider a family??i dunno why i said this..although i dun really like my father,but sumtimes he really make/do things i will appreciate it..hahha,dunno y.But nvm,this is yr dae...A tribute to u guys out there who is fathers already or on the way to be,enjoy it...

Dreams/Goals

Wat is yr dreams/goals???Have u thought of it??wat u k do to achieve it??To me,i'm a simple a man with goals or dreams to be easily achieve..Hope to have a 5rm flat with my beloved ones,a stable career,dream car (forrester),a lovely family n sum r gd buddies/frends to have..N travel ard the world with my loved ones..

haha,isit stupid to have so simple dreams /goals to have..Maybe i will not have a chance to achieve it at all cos the world dun look gd..It looks like gng to cum to e end of world...Just hope before e world end,i will achieve it...

almost!?!?!?!?

Fcuk!!!Almost get into a accident due to a reckless driver,dunno wtf she wan....wan to drive straight or turn left...almost crash into my car,is not i wan to comment on ppls.becos to my frends,i'm not very gd in driving also...Poor judgement in driving does not apply to females also,it will happen to everyone including guys also...So once ur one the road driving/riding,pls know wat u wan n do it safely...Do not endanger other road users n yr passengers..Understand???

"let's work towards a accident free Environment" ...

gd movie

Helo,is movie recommendation time...PPls out there,u gonna watch the movie "ghost of girlfriends pasts"It's nice n touching..U know during the movie,i heard sum gers were crying during one of the scences...the male actor asking his sister-in-law to be dun leave his brother.Telling her this,

"wat's the most painful thing u will ever suffer in this world,that will be leaving yr loved one n running away from them.Becos the most impt thing in this world is LOVE.So dun run away,face the reality."

So to me, my thinking will Be together with the one that U LOVE N THE ONE THAT LOVE U.N U2 will be happily together till the last day of yrs life...AGREE??so do not waste yr time,let the one u LOVED know that he/she is loved by u.Dun hestitate n hurry up...Actions speak louder than words,if not yr loved one will run away from u sumdae.Cherish the chance

Angry

i was damn angry n sad for todae..nvr expected things will disappear from my office by its own...Although i know who took it,i dun wan to confront him becos he will not adimt,things always get disappeared by its own..all in the office know who took it but we dun wan to confront him becos we dun wan the matter to becum a big issue..N all of us wan is hope he will change but i think a leopard will nvr change its spots...right???damn fed up!!u Know who u r,beta stop it..IF NOT U WILL GET INTO TROUBLES...

sad

helo,this is the second time tat i dwnload this foto..wat r the name of frendship to u??any idea wat it mean??i dunno why out the sudden i said this out..haha,do anyone really know wat r true frends or hi-bye frends...k anyone explain to me the purpose of havin frends for??is it becos i'm feeling lonely or all my frends had changed...NVm,let's hope a better world will cum..

Selfish ppls

damn angry just now when i went to eat my dinner with my frends at bugis macdonald outlet.i noticed alot of ppls had finished their fd n the best thing is that they just sit dwn there even the staff had cleared the foods.i was standing in between 2 tables of ppls..the family table side just sit there n watch their daughter using internet even the fd had cleared..i dun mind waiting if they still got fd to eat,but they had finished..y stiill take the seats n watch thier daughter using internet...WTF,right...the other one more beta...2ppls (2ladies)taking 6 ppls seats n eat ice cream,at first i thought they r waiting for frends..in the end,it was just two of them..they also know ppls are waiting for the seats they were seating.they just acted blur...WTF the ppls r thinking abt nowadays,pls b considerate towards ppls that need help..especially in public transports...I like the ch8 show "paris n milan"...It's a variety show that shows the ugly side of s'poreans...so dun complaint if foreigners complaint of our courteos actions...so think first abt our actions then comment on their feedbacks...UNDERSTAND!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

WTF....

Helo,remebr my last blog...haiz,they did not quarrel over will but they quarrel over sum small things who is the one the one to pay the money for sum performance during my uncle funeral...IS it stupid to quarrel over it??used to quarrel over will n now quarrel becos everyobe wanna to pay...WTF...i dunno why my relatives so funny...

Wat the Fcuk!!!!!dunno wat they r thinking abt,i think my uncle also dun wish to c this stuff loh...haiz,they k resolve this matter soon becos no matter wat...KINSHIP is impt than Money.becos kinship is sumthing that i believe tat humans k not live without. M i RIGHT???

wat is kinship???

Dmn sad n depressed when i heard the news from my mum abt my uncle...He had just passed away...He's the uncle that i know that will not argus over money with family members..Y i said this,becos when my grandma passed away..everyone in the family except him n my dad do not bother abt my ah ma's money n business...the rest of them was quarreling abt it n u know wat they even went to court over this...Very stupid n ashamed,right??when she's alive,everyone was gd to each other...But aftr she passed away..true colours cum out liao for everyone..So is KINSHIP????i really dunno...Is money important than kinship....or everybody in this world all are wearing masks becos of incentives...wat is happening???dunno wat is gng to happen this time to my family liao....dun dare to go n think.

HAPPINESS?!?!?!

Helo,just a movie name "a night at the museum2"...It's a comedy movie...This is my own point of view..But is a gd movie to go n watch with frends..so dun wait,hurry up...BTw,i like one pharse from the movie,it goes like this:

"The KEY to the HAPPINES is finding SUM1 U LoVED N DOING the things U2 LOve"

i hope i din not rember it wrongly...I agree this phrase..becos i believe doing things with the one u loved will be gd n enjoying...becos is not the result of the things u2 are doing tat make u happy is the accompany of the one u loved during the whole process that will make u happy..AGREE??SO dun wait,if ur loving sum1 n she/he dunno that u like him/her..pls let them know wat ur thinking n how u feel with them??dun let yr happiness slip away..Understand!!!!WISH ALL loving couples will b together n those who r still single like me find their true lOVE soon...

HAd to b alert

Did u readthe newpapers???Now spore had cases of H1N1 liao...i felt abit sad when i read it becos alot ppls commented that those infected ppls r selfish n inconsiderate at all...who wan to b /like to b infected,k u tell me??I hate those ppls who r complainting...spare sum thought for those ppls,k...if u r e one who is infected,would u like to have ppls to commented on u..Becos i believe u also dun wan this type of unfortunate things to happen..right??

So let's hope the world k put a stop on this type of stupid virus liao...WORLD PEACE.....

suddenly???

Helo,time files fast..IT's gng to b june liao....Dunno whether when i will b activated for trg overseas,i hope i will have a chance to c/mit her as what she promised...although,i know the miting session will not last long..But i dun mind...becos at least i have a chance to mit up with her....Becos i dunno wat will happen if i really get activated for overseas trg..

Hmm,i just had a feeling of missing her or i just wan to clarify sum stuff with her...who knows she might b reading this right now..haha...

SAD new

I was damn sad when I was dbl checking my airborne cse foto...Who is the guy who passed away during the free fall exercise a few days ago...U know wat...Tat guy was 1 of the superior tat i respect for my life as a army regular...Y i said this becos he was a very humble n self discipline comdr.i rember 1incident got 1 CPT ask him y as a commando,he dun have so many badges like the rest,he replied i'm in the service for 20plus..I will just put the badge tat i will feel proud n honour as a commando...During the cse,he always enourage my cse mates who is weak in fitness...Must train hard n maintain fitness,becos as a regular in the force...Our fitness is very important...U know i will feel ashamed of myself when he take off his clothes...Becos as a young guy myself,i dun have the body as his...Becos even he is very old...I think his age ard my cse time was 50.he still have 8pack...yes 8 pack..not 1 big pack,aftr watching it..i told myself i must maintain my fitness like him even i grow old...

I will always rember U,WO TAN my favourite airborne jump master...Thks for yr advice n guidance during the cse..

arrghh.....

Damn fed up fed up damn fed up.....help ppls still kanna nasty words/comments...damn fu????? angry.haiz,y also like tat.i'm dun mind helping ppls.But in the end,ppls always take me for granted...Fu?? tat...Life as a helpful person sucks.....dunno why,i dun expect ppls will return me back any favour..But just treat me as a true frend,this is wat i really want from those ppls tat i help....

Y this world is like tat!!!!!!!IS it all PPLS ARE SELFISH OR they only will do things tat will benefit themselves???Dunno wat is the answer for my question....

fed up n sad!!!!!!!!!!!!!

i was damn fed up n sad today becos of sum stupid,selfish n immature ppls...Always just do or said things tat is gd for them.....Always think themselves is higher than the rest...which is not,U wanna know why...Becos they always said tat they r gd n always set gd example for ppls to c...ALL R BULLSHIT...always came late n go off early...Contribute the least...YES THE LEAST,BUT WAN THE MOST PRIVILEGEs....

I HATE THIS TYPE OF PPLS.......................ARRG....................Dun u agree with me????JUST KIT THE ANSWER WITH U N IN YR HEARt...Although this is life,i will still take it...becos this is me,but me abit choosy...becos when they nd my help,i will choose not help...hahaha

STun by this matter.....

whoa,k not believe it...I was approach by my frend to be a listening ear..She was upset becos her "bf" do sumthing bad to her....i was curious why she was sad so i willing to be her listening ear loh..Her "BF" is a ger...WTF..I dun really agree to same sex marriage or R/S...Becos i think all the R/S will have a gd ending...This is my own point of view,so if got ppls disagree with me...It's ok.Every one got his/her own point of veiw...

But lastly,no matter wat will happen to my frend..I hope she will wake up from this matter n will know wat she really want for her own life in the future...

2timer?!?!?!?!

Hiaz,abit angry when i heard my frend told me her story...SHE is 2timer her bf again.This is her 2nd time as wat i know from her...She n her current bf is gng to b engage soon ard of this yr,but she still two time her bf or husband-to-be....N u know wat,the so called fling bf also r attached....

I dunno why r her thinkings or reason behind it...I also know that all humans also like to have excitement(ie flings) ot spare tyre..But do u know tat yr the other half(bf),not the fling bf will be truly hurt if he really treats u with sincere love n truly care from the bottom of his/her heart.

So u ppls out there who is reading this right now...YES U...pls dun even think to start of a fling with others if ur attached..BECOS the other half will DEEPLY HURT...by YR ACTIONS,It will turn into a grave mistake n becos of this it turn into a fight among couples...

I hope my blog will help ppls think first...

wei wei

Out of the sudden got this feeling to write this blog...Today,my blog is abt frends..before i start,i nd to ask u ppls a few questions...Wat r frends to u???Did any1 treat u as frends???will they b there for u if u nd help???

I know alot frends through army daes,wrkplace(during young age time) n skool lifes...But u know wat,which i dun believe myself also...not everyone i know treat me as a frend,becos i think that i been treated by them as a hi-bye frend.When they my help,they call u for help...Do u get into this situation like me also???Dunno why i been treated like this,do i do anything wrong like helping them alot when they nd help...

Haiz,i just hope that everyone will have true frends...Not frends like to use u for sumthing or help they wan u for..do u know wat i mean!!!!

A tribute To U Ladies..

Helo,tomoro is Mother's day liao...Did u ppls decide where to go 4dinner or wat to buy 4yr MUM?????My mum told me not to celebrate tomoro becos she think that why must only treat her special only on MOTHER's DAY...JUst treat her gd n special everidae not dun make her ANGRY OR WORRY...I totally agree wat my mUm SAID....

I had to say these to the LADIES out there,thanks for "bringing us guys into this world n endure the pain that we guys dun even know how pain isit...to single ladies,ur special at all times.becos sooner or later.becos ur gng to get marry in the future,right???btw,if ur gng to be a mum-to-be or already a mother liao...Thanks for TAKING CARE of YR FAMILY...WITHOUT U,YR FAMILY OR HOUSE will be empty or not lively liao..SO THANKS alot for making the family lively n full of joyfulness n happiness.

Happy Mother's day to all MUMMIES...Remember treat YR MUM WELL WITH LOVE N CARE AT ALL TIMES.......

things A CouPLe must have!!!!

Helo,got the feeling to write this blog aftr hearing wat my camp mate told me...He saw his gf's ex bf came dwn from her hm when my frend was dwnstairs at his gf's hse..he questioned his gf but she said it's only a normal visit to her hm becos of the pets they used to have which is now hse at his gf's hse...My frend was angry with the reply he got but he canot do it anything to it,in the end they quarrel.My frend was affected by this matter n he was low morale becos of this matter.Aftr hearing the whole story from him,i told him that for a R/S to work well must have trust in each other n always must forgive n forget.If not,the R/S will not last long n will always have quarrels...Quarrels to me is still ok,wat if it get worse becum fights among a couple...who will suffer???I dunno how to describle the result of the fight n dun wish to comment on it..

But i hope those ppls out there if UR in A R/S...Beta rember these advices by me which i hope it will work for u...Yes,U..the person who is reading this right now..

"the world is big,it's not easy to find sum1 that you loved n loved U...So must treat her with love and care with yr heart...N always b the first to say sry if sumthing bad happen even though ur not in the wrong becos u2 will get into quarrels or fights unnecessary.if not,u will b hurting her or him,Right???@lways FORGIVE N FORGET N MUST HAVE TRUST IN THE OTHER HALF(BF or GF).N Dun stray ard for fun or excitement or fling.."

Hope it will help... :) : >

HAiz...

Helo,wAt is the meaning of life to u??i just took a test in facebk..the answer of mine goes like this... Your life is based on wanting to experience love or loving someone. You live to love and love to live. You have your worst of times and you have your best.. you sit and wait for that someone to complete you.Sounds sad to u ppls..right??wat k i do to make my life happier???
Right now,i just hope that the things that i been waiting or hoping for will come true for me..I hope so...

Marriage that will last long????

Hei hei,surprised to c me back here for so long...is it???sry for being MIA for sum time...was bz with training....saw a programme last week abt marriage...a couple stay as a married couples for 30 to plus yrs....I envy them alot...becos of their actions towards each other...During the show,they loved n cared for each other like they had just started as a dating couple.K u imagine it for so long so many yrs???K u do this to yr other beloved half???or aftr a while u will just go through montion...Do u know wat i trying to say??????

To me,if i had a chance to be like the above mentioned couple...i will do it to my loved one also..becos this is the best way to keep a R/S or marriage strong,loving n meaningful for so long...which i dun have the chance right now,but dun wry in the future my other half or my beloved one..."SHE" will be the most happiest and luckiest woman in the world becos to me i will always protect her with my life,always make her happy and joyful rather than sadness or sorrowness n the most impot things is always be there for her at all times,LOVED HER with yr TRUE HEART n not doing hurtful things to make her sad or CRIED......

So ppls out there,all the above mentioned not only apply to guys only...Gers pls also take note of wat i say becos sumtimes guys also will nd u to be at his side when he dwn...UNDERSTAND!!!!!!!

how to know????

Helo,K i ask u sum questions "How ru gng to know whther a ger is interested in u n not interested in U"?????i been askin my frends ard me abt this 2 questions...lol..MUST b Crazy,rite???Almost all gave me different answers...but 1 thing/answer same from them is the ger will comfortable with u n she will go out with u for a date or a movie session...right??then for the not interested part is they will not reply to yr sms or not agree to mit up at all...

This is wat i think also...Hmm,life is very funny sumtimes....Maybe when she is bored or lonely,sumwhere or sum how she will mizz u...M i RIGHT?????so take it slow n steady...Maybe soon she will realise who is the correct one for her....LOL LOL...

Surprise

Hey,ppls out there..Did u watch the advertisement abt close ties with family??the indian lady toking abt her late husband...I like the idea of it becos it shows one thing kinship is very impt to everyone.It will happen to u anywhere n anytime..it do not happen to family members only..it apply to yr frendship also,right??so must cherish it,do not let it (frendship) go..If u had do sumthing wrong to yr frends or loved ones...Say sry before u dun have a chance to do it or the misunderstanding getting worse...Do u ppls out there know wat i mean???THINK AGAIN Abt My topic right now..Yes,from this moment aftr u had read my bLOG.......Hurry up, n do it if u got sumthing to say or do to yr loved one...

Yeah

Helo,finally my computer is up...sry for the virus attack that i had been my frends's com..Hope u ppls won't mind...Did u watch last nite I Guess x3,is a topic abt celebrities finding pretty gers along the streets..The no 2 contestant was a pretty ger but with very sad story behind it...She was singel for 6yrs liao.The reason why she dun get attached is becos she dun think she will not find sum1 better than her ex bf.Although it only last 3 to 4 mths for her r/s,but to her is a very gd r/s..Becos it gave her gd n joyful memories...Jacky wu told her to open out her heart so that a new special 1 will occupy that place...

I totally agree wat Jacky wu said..No matter how happy n unforgetable the previous r/s gave u...
"Wat's is past had passed".Open yr heart to a new r/s n u will know who is the real one that will treat ,love,care n protect u...Right????

Fed up dae 080409

Wat a stupid dae for me on this date 080409...damn fed up with this particular superior..To me,he just a superior that dun deserve my respect...A stupid matter that he did not bother check with me n just based on 1 version that a stupid person complaint...He just scold me for nothing in front of a lot ppls.I'm not angry with him for that,i'm just damn fed up with him for not listening to my explanation or reason.Would u respect or wan to work under him???Sooner or later,i will quarrel or a heart to heart talk with him...If not,i will just ignore that stupid fellow....whoa a stupid n fed up dae for me...sian

whoa

Got a gd movie to shared with u guys out there...Did u watch jackie chan's latest movie??Is a gd movie..Must watch it...I liked it becos it shows alot of real life things tat will happen in yr daily life...Not those bad things..Is like yr frends ard u tat will do things just for themselves or ur doing things for everyone (big picture tat will not hurt anyone n only benefit )I like the pharse tat the movie always got "30% leave it to fate,70% leave it to yrself, Must try then u will know whther ru a winner"Is a hokkien song....DUn u guys agree????U guys shld watch,worth the money,but only sum scenes not suitable for gers...If ur bringing yr gfs to watch be ware of it....

For yr information,i got myself a care liao..It's a honda jazz...It's not my dream car...My dream car is subaru forestter or honda civi...Too expensive for me liao...tat's y i choose jazz..Is beta n comfty to drive ard than bike...My bike had to retire liao,so many yrs (8yrs) for me to ride ard..Sry for those who know me,i dun like to pillon ppls ard in my bike becos i dun wan my frends to be hurt or died.becos i dun think bike is a gd transport to drive ppls ard...It might get into accident anytime n anywhere no matter how safety ur....Agree???I just hope that "she" will be the 1st person that i will drive ard...Hope u will read this n know that ur the one i'm talking abt.

Car!?!?!

Helo,gng to get my "GF" soon...which is my new mode of transport to camp....I had been waiting for this day to cum for years...hahaha,the reason why i been waiting for so long..is because i wan to wait till my career is confirmed...which is confirm lately...Hmm,can't eager to get it now..SO i k drive ard n do the things that i wan to do..

Like gng to seaside n airport to enjoy the scenery that i like do in the past..More comforty than motorcycle....cos got shelter n k lie down to enjoy the aircon..hahahha...

Missing sum1

Whoa,weathers been bad recently...Same like my mood...Unpredictable...haha,dunno why i quite miss her especially during night time or listen to songs abt love...Especially show's song "gao xiao"...c the MTV,i think my life is like him,on the pretext i'm happy with my life now but actually now i miss her alot...haiz..

Now only k look at the photos in my wallet to ease the feelings of missing her...Hmm,u ppls out there..do or will u have the feeling of mine also????

One

Sry for gng missing for a few wks.....I was bz with training...i had a story to share with u ppls out there..Pls stay focus and attention...This story make me canot focus during wrk.

There was a loving couple taking a walk along the seaside...The ger ask the boy 1 question "How long will u love me"? The guy answer the ger by showing handsign 1 to her..The ger was confused,she start to ask him like "1day,1mth 1yr or 1whole life'????

The guy only reply "TILL 1day that u dun LOVE me at aLL"....The ger was touched when she heard this,she immediately gave her bf a hug..n the ending of the story was even touching whic is evryone wants,aftr yrs of staying as a couple.they were happily married...

I was touched by the story....when it will be my turn to answer the ger that i loved...Haiz..if i k turn back the time to last yr,i will said this sentence to her if i have a chance to.will do that like the guy?Will u stay faithful to the ger/guy that u loved....I hope my blogs k make u think again...

A Rainy Sundae!?!?!?!

wat a sundae i had today....Went It fair just now....Very packed loh....summore sum of the passage to suntec had been closed dwn...i think the organzier wan to control the traffic flow but result worse more jam...can't find anything tat want...sian...Btw,i manage to know which mayday album tat i dun have liao...It's called "time machine" in chinese..So today my blog is abt "time machine"...
if i had a chance to go back time,first thing in my mind is to stop my second aunt being murdered in a break-in case when i was ard primary 5...Till now,the robber is scott-free at outside world cos the neighbour dun dare to cum out...fuck tat right....third thing is regarding my studies,i will choose the NA stream instead Nt stream...A choice tat i will regret it...I listen to my frend n choose tat becos he just wan me to acc him...stupid...hahhaa..the other thing in my mind is i wan to attend my ah gong funeral which i k not attend it due to wrk commitment at thailand...
so u ppls out there....wat r the things u will do if u got a chance to go back????think carefully...before u answer my question...

Yeah!?!?!?!

Helo,i'm back....sry for not updating my blogs...was bz with courses,get to know alot of gd frends through the course.I was quite relieved that the match-making session was cancel..hahaha.heard from my father tat the ger was shy to attend the dinner....I was sharing this infro with sum of my close frends,they said is gd for me to know n make new frends liao...
Hmm,at the moment not really interested...Just hope a miracle will happen...I wish,i hope,i desire for it...that the miracle will happen...Got quite alot of movies out,feeli like watching all of it...dun wry,i will share my comments/feedback abt it on my blogs....if u ppls out there,dun mind my view/rating/recommendations abt it...hahahaha.CYA

Match-makeR?!?!?!?!

Helo,damn sian durin this weekends....staying at hm reading manuals n prepare it for tests....I was a match-maker for my frend but nvr expected my father also wan to match-make me with his wrking place (HDB) OLs.....It's a steamboat session at my hm tis cuming fridae..which i canot avoid,cos instructions had been passed dwn by my parents..must be at hm for the dinner....

Nvr expect my father will do it....Just take a step n c how to react loh...But i will feel awkard loh..Just wait n c my blogs abt the session loh...HAHAHA...

Being Loved

helo,ppls out there...Thks for viewing my boring n lousy blogs......Got this thought when i was toking to my so called "god-sister" tat is gng to get marry,n just nice radio yes 933 was playing this song by ronald cheng "pei ai shi sin fu"..............Hmm,she got sum1 tat is willing to love her n settle dwn.i Feel happy for her..As u got read my previous blogs..u will know why..hahaha..do u agree wat i said???

Being loved is gd...becos the one u loved might not be the one that will accept u as the one to spend the rest of his/her life with...But the one that is willing to accept u as a life long partner might not be the one U loved...Right???Agree????...hahaha...Funny blogs or Boring blogs???Pls kit the comments in yr heart... :)

INTRO to u...

Helo....A gd movie to intro to u ppls out there..Must n K watch it..."He's Just not that INto You"...Is a gd movie tat shows different r/s n problems u will faced in R/S...k watch..it also shows sum bad things/expectations in a marriage...Dun get the wrong idea tat i promoting dun marry...ok???Marraige is a gd things for couples to have...is just only dun expect much in a marriage n must be truthful in yr R/S...this is wat i think abt this movie...hmm,too many things to write abt this...u ppls must watch it...u Know wat i'm trying to share it with u...

"FORGIVE & FORGET"

HELO...got the idea from newspaper article abt edsion case!!!Nicholas Tse was a good husband to me...becos he is willing to accept wat his wife had done in the past before she marry him...to me,i think that every man or woman should forgive n forget the loved one had done in the past before they was together...but must be truthful to yr loved one...UNDERSTAND??do u agree on my point of view??becos a r/s in order to last long or stay healthy,couples must be truthful to each other n must have a heart to forgive n forget...right???all my blogs are just my own point of view...nvr expected k influence u guys out there...but just hope it k make u a beta person aftr reading it..

Sum1 tat will cum into yr mind

Helo......Sry for not updating my blogs....as i was bz with work recently...hmm,k i ask u ppls out there this question???who will be the special 1 tat will cum to yr mind if u get into accident n scared tat u will not have a chance to c again???PLS think this question carefully with yr heart n ask yrself sincerely to answer tis question from yr bottom of yr heart...k??dunno why i will think of this???hmm...maybe at the moment,my mind is abit "chaos" becos the 1 tat i will think abt..NVm,just think abt my question,k liao.if u wish to leave any comments in my blogs or u wan to tok to me to inspire wat to write in my blogs...pls contact me @ this msn add ndkoh@hotmail.com....cya.

Fotos?!?!?!

Hmm,anyone out there..pls answer this question..the question is do u have any photos in yr wallet???WHY did u need to have one inside yr wallet????is it becos u liked or missed sum1 so much tat u wan to use it to kill the feeling of missing him or her???To me,i used it to kill the feeling of missing her....haha,hmm not all guys will like to kit it inside wallets becos they might not like their new "targets" to know abt it...right???to me,i dun care abt it becos it left gd memories of me n "her"...hahahaha,so if u have sum1 out there tat k make u missed so much or loved so much...maybe u k try my method,put fotos inside bah...

LOVE

Wat is love??any 1 k answer me this question???I got a phone call from my so called god sister...saying that she gng to rom next mth...she died died wan me to attend...u know why,becos her husband is I intro de...i'm his superior during his army days..kind of funny,isit???I think he's a gd guy n she's a gd ger...tat's y i intend to match make....LOL,nvr expectedit works n they last till marriage...Hmm,my thinking of love is protect,love.care for her...always be there for her...agree??so if anyone out there,if u intend to do the things like my above mentioned story...must do wat i just mentioned...

Comments

Just watched movie "Valkyrie"...it's a movie abt world war history...lazy to type out,hmm,to me i think not very gd lah......becos is a bit draggy n too many talking than actions..i prefered actions packed/loved/comedies movies than story telling movies..lately,abit ez get emo...maybe cos too many ppls ard me got sad things happened(work,life,family n love)....why this world must have sad things happen?????
just hope that everyone ard me is safe n sound...becos sum of them dun even know control their emotions liao.they becum sick n abit zombie in actions liao...like gng through motion..do u know wat i mean???wish everyone is safe n sound.....

HUmans???!!!!???

To all ppls tat is reading my blogs....pls take note,sum of my blogs is not only abt me...sum of the blogs is abt my frends also....So pls dun b offend by sum of my comments...hmm,is all humans selfish???to me,my answer is yes...all ppls are selfish..They will not be selfish onli when they are doing or sarificing for sum1 tat they cared or loved...Right???Do u agree??
Hmm,but humans got 1 gd point that they will not hurt the one they loved..agree???sumtimes when they hurt sum1..they do not mean it...all lack of undertsanding caused all the misunderstanding...

All the above is just my thinking....dun get offend by it....

Valetine Day....

Whoa,today is a gd day for those have loved ones...hahaha,is a sad day for me.becos 1yr ago,on this day i was spending with sum 1 that i loved but she choose to left me....now i'm alone...right now i'm drowning in the loneliness of "open sea"..hope she will know who is the one....who will throw a life buoy to me to stay afloat n alive..
Anyway,it's also a frendship day..rember,said this to yr frends also....cya.

110209

haiz..............Damn sad n depressed today..i asked her whther k patch back...her answer is no becos we dun have the same chemistry n i'm not the type of guy tat she wan..i dunno why.if she really think tat way,why in the front place must start e r/s with me...pls dun said tat must try out first then decide not to carry on...it will bring hurt to both parties if ur not interested at all....To all ppls out there who are reading this,pls dun start a r/s if ur not interested in it...if not u will hurt the other party........... Got no mood to wrk at all.........nvm..........

Arghh,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

Haiz........feeling rather sad n emo at the moment....dunno is it becos of my buddy death anniversary is closer...or i got a lot hi bye frends liao,only cum to me when they nd help in ????.also dunno whether did they treat me as frends anot.nowadays,when i got ppls cum to me for help..i was in a confused state cos i dunno shld i reject them anot..i rember 1 song by ronald cheng..the lycrics is like this"frends are forever,always be there for each other"......do u believe it??i dun really believe it liao...dunno why,maybe becos too gd to ppls ard me..n now ppls start to make use of me...haha,or maybe it's my own assumption loh...haiz..gd frends where ru???One of my best frend/buddy is up there....Hmm,maybe he had turned into a guardian angel guarding or protecting us(u know who ur) from the danger..Just hope tat everyone out there had frends that will really help u when u nd help...

start of feb...

helo...guys n gers...time files fast...is yr 2009 liao...just finish ink heart last sat...hmm,not very nice as wat i expected..hahaha,most impt is the accompany..rite.watched it with my gd frend..Great/gd/happy feelings abt the ch8 drama..."reunion dinner"..i like the show alot...cos it reflect my life alot.....i appreciate the ppls that wrk for this project from ch8..BRAVO..."very ren ming wa" n realistic....haiz,gng to be very bz soon..gng for courses...gng to have a tan v shade on my chest due to the training under the sun again....must go for swimming liao to get a tan whole body..hahaha...although right now dun have the cny mood everywhere liao...i still wish everyone that read my boring blogs a happy niu yr n stay healthy always....

a gd movie to share...

Whoa,just finish a movie name "bride wars"....It's a movie tat gave me ideas/feelings to write this blog..is abt 2gd frends tat turn into enemies becos they dun wish to give in to each other becos of a wedding dae....Funny,becos their dreams is to get marry on the same place .wedding planner,concept n same grp of frends....but sumthing happen,it becum a mistake they get marry on the same day...becos of this mistake,from gd frends becum enemies.....

I like this sentence from the movie..It goes like this:

"The First Day of yr marriage is the 1st day of yr rest of yr life"

Do u know it means???my understanding of this sentence is abt starting a new life with yr loved 1....n U had to live differently with sum1...do not think/do anything just for yrself...Have to save sum thoughts for yr loved one also...This movie deserve to be watched by U...yes,u...the person who is reading this/my blog now...hahaha...If not nice...k leave a comment inside my blog...Cya.

CNY stufff

helo,happi CNY to everyone..haiz,damn fed up for this 2days...read this..damn heng for yesterdae...almost get into a accident when i was on my way to my buddy hse for a gathering..i was riding my bike n a taxi driver just drove/cut into my lane....Just to get one passenger....i almost crashed into his car..u know??damn fed up...haiz...

Another incident,today i was taking bus no 63 to my aunt's hse...the front part of the bus was full of passengers but u know WAT..the back part of the bus was quite empty...becos everyone dun wan to move in becos they were afraid that later part of the journey..they will have difficulties to get out of the bus..i was fed up abt this,i told the bus captain abt this...he kindly asked the passengers to move in but no action at all...damn sian...

The moral of my blog todae is sumtimes i think that humans tend to be selfish n inconsiderate due to their desires/targets/goals...i might be right or wrong in this..but wat i really wan is i hope everyone shld b more considerate n helpful to all ppls ard him/her..just hope that my blog k help...

TRUE LOVE

helo,i read a newpaper article(dated 20 january)..it's very touching..is abt a husband that dun mind her wife is seriously sick with mental problems n dun care abt her familys' objection..n he still marry her n willing to take care of her becos he made a vow before..It's goes like this

"I told myself that the woman i marry,whoever she is,i iwll love forever."

how often will a guy k kit the promise or vow he made to the ger he love or marry..To me,i think every guy will always try to made the promises they made to come true...Right??Hmm,i think if i had e chance to make my loved one happy..is by becoming a rubbish trunk,u know y...becos she will throw all her unhappiness n sadness into it..n i will turn/recycle the bad things into things that k make her happy..Get this idea from mayday's song...haha..but to ppls out there,each have their own ways of keeping their promises or ways to protect their loved ones..right...if u happen to c yr frends got problems with it,pls share yr ideas or views with them,it might help them..

Lastly,CNY is cuming..wish u guys n gers a hppi new yr..all yr dreams n wishes will cum true..

Dreams

A photo that i took during denmark

Helo,i got this feeling abt writing this blog when i visit my close frend/buddy 's parents..must be wondering why i visit them,right?becos i did not attend a gathering at their hse last wk....i felt sad when i visited them cos my frend had passed away in a accident...he was not ard with me n the rest of the guys..i think i was lost without his guidance n directions in life...maybe it's like e photo on top,very blur..dunno wat to do..

guys n gers think carefully from this moment,ru really happy with the things u have now???have u achieved yr dreams or ambitions???It's quite funny that i always write abt sad things in my blogs..but wat to do..always got sad things that nake me write this blogs..hahah,will try to write sumthing happy..

Future?!?!?!

First sunrise during trg at denmark

helo,guys n gers..i'm back...CNY is cuming closer n closer..had u done with yr CNY shopping or dun plan to go out at all???I dun really shop this CNY..maybe becos of e recession period,need to think wat to buy...Btw,the 9pm show at ch8 reflects my life when i was small..especially those days that i dun even have gd fd during CNY time...haha,u know why..becos my family was not really well to do when i was small or younger..during that time, i was like 1 of the kids..mature at a young age but not like her so clever...

tat's y u had cultivate a savings plan of my own...Always think ahead n far..Must save for yr rainy days...becos u nvr know wat will happen..Agree??so frneds out there,it's nor too late to start yr own saving plans.. Hope my words k influence u guys n gers to start saving now..HAHAHA

Wat a DAY FOR ME 140109

Today was not a good day for me........ARGh.........Damn angry n sad, becos i felt like i was betrayed by my frend..he complainted sumthing to my superior,u know wat..he still wan to reason with me for the complaints he made..i did not do anything wrongs.. i was letting my subordinates for some welfares.....Hmm,maybe abit over for the welfares i give.. but i stll feell sad n agry abt it..


NVM..i still have to live with it...becos with or without the incident,i'm still ANDY KOH n the world will still turn n it will not stop just becos of this matter..so take it........

"PEACE"

Helo...aftr watching "red Cliff"..It's a nice movie..but i dun like to see the ending part abt dead bodies lying ard..Y can't ppls just stay away from war n fights??Look around now,in this world..There is alot of ppls suffering..i know it's difficult to help everyone,right??

But what i think is try to influence ppls ard u dun hurt or fight..Only fight back when u nd to protect yr loved ones from getting hurt...I'm not trying to b a sale promoter n promoting abt PEACE..but just rember this,when ur angry..Just take 3 seconds to let the "angryness gas" to cool dwn..everything will be fine..hope my blog k helps to make u think again before u get angry or fight for stupid reason..WORLD PEACE..

"CHOICES"

Hei hei,guys n gers.. i was quite bz with my wrk recently...i was thinking abt this question for this whole wk aftr watcing "little Nyonya" on mondae...dunno whether u guys or gers rember this part when "chok chok" told her grand daughter this sentence..It goes like this

"When the person u LOVED might not be the one who will treat u GOOD.
But when the person who is GOOD to u,might not be the one u LOVED. "

I strongly agree this sentence...do u ppls out there agree????

mayday rocks

I just finish watching mayday's concert..Totally rocks..Throughout the concert,i was walking ard looking for "her" becos she also got went there..haha,but is only pass her e cd so that she k help get signature from mayday..But to me,is gd enough cos i k look at her again..better than look at the photos..right??u guys or gers agree with me??

Nvm lah,u know wat from mayday's songs..it make think alot abt my life...hahaha,dunno wat to said or type it out..i just think that when sumone is dwn with things..Listen to songs k help u change yr mindset..

I learn a new sentence..No matter how bad or gd for everything in yr daily life..It's consider memories liao..U cannot throw it away becos it had bcum part of yr life liao..It will cum back to u when ur doing certain things,it will remind u again abt certain thing or person or meaning..So Guys or Gers,cherish yr memeries...Understand!!!!!

"i love U"

How often u said the three lovely words to yr loved one??everytime,once a wk or only special occasion/anniversary??Aftr watching yesterdae hk movie that ekin cheng starred in..i have the thought/feelings abt writing this blog.. The show is abt 3men that always neglect n bully women in their daily life..when they had a accident n passed away.. God gave them a chance to came back to life n repent on their mistakes but on 1 condition..they will be back in themselves but dun have the "male gentials" n will have all women thinking,mindset n feelings n " female gentials" ..

aftr watching the show,i realised one thing that is for a man is easy to said i love u to any ger..but is it true that the one ur toking to is the one u really like/loved or wan to settle dwn with??but for gers,is very difficult for them to said it becos they will really think carefully becos they will only do it to the one that they really want to settle dwn with or they truly loved/liked...

A marriage vow is a promise to the supreme being in your heart, whatever name you call it.A marriage is sacred. It's a vow you should never break!!

Pls dun get offended by words..this is all just my own thinkings..