wat is kinship???

Dmn sad n depressed when i heard the news from my mum abt my uncle...He had just passed away...He's the uncle that i know that will not argus over money with family members..Y i said this,becos when my grandma passed away..everyone in the family except him n my dad do not bother abt my ah ma's money n business...the rest of them was quarreling abt it n u know wat they even went to court over this...Very stupid n ashamed,right??when she's alive,everyone was gd to each other...But aftr she passed away..true colours cum out liao for everyone..So is KINSHIP????i really dunno...Is money important than kinship....or everybody in this world all are wearing masks becos of incentives...wat is happening???dunno wat is gng to happen this time to my family liao....dun dare to go n think.